Gift Giving Etiquette for Weddings
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From the time a couple decides to get engaged to the actual wedding day their are many parties and occasions for gift giving. Knowing when, what or do I need to give a gift for wedding related events is probably a delimma everyone faces at one time or another. Below are some tips for general etiquette to help answer those questions.
The Engagement Party. If the engagement party is not a surprise the question is, “Do I bring a gift?” Unfortunately, the answer is not a clear yes or no. General etiquette is no, you do not have to bring a gift. However, you can bring a gift if you want to express your congratulations to the couple or if you knew you would be unable to attend the other parties that are associated with the wedding. Gift ideas for an engagement party would be, wedding planning materials, a bottle of winefor, or a gift that both the bride and groom would enjoy.
The Bridal or Wedding Shower. Gifts should always be given at the bridal shower. Many times there is a theme to the shower like a lingerie, kitchen, or bath shower. The purpose of the shower is give gifts that help the couple prepare for their new life. In the past these parties have been centered around the bride, however, today these parties are focusing on the couples together. These are co-ed and are known as Jack and Jill showers. Typically, the couple will have a gift registry where you can get gift ideas.
The Wedding Gift. A wedding gift should always be sent whether you are attending the wedding or not. Couples typically have wedding gift registries, but don't feel obligated to purchase from the registry. How much you spend on a wedding gift is up to you and your relationship with the couple. In case the couple needs to return the gift, it is always a good idea to include a gift receipt. Also, giving money to the happy couple is appropriate and traditional in many countries. If your gift is thoughtful and conveys your wishes for the couple then you have chosen the right gift.
With the many gift giving opportunities surrounding a wedding you can easily feel overwhelmed with the expenses. When choosing gifts consider the event and keep your budget in mind. As with all gift giving, if the gift comes from your heart the monetary value is insignificant.
