Declining a Gift
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Gifting is the global way of expression and way to nurture relationships. Most people are comfortable with receiving a gift, but few are comfortable with declining a gift. Why? Because most of the time, accepting a gift is what we do. Most of us have had little experience in how to politely refuse a gift.
However, there are circumstances when a gift should be declined. Overly generous gifts from co-workers and clients are the most common reason for refusing gifts. When accepting a gift could potentially damage a business relationship, then to tactfully decline the gift is the right thing to do. However, it must be done in a respectful manner in order to continue a good business relationship with the giver.
Tip: Review your business’s policy on accepting gifts from clients. If your business does business internationally, research the gift etiquette of those countries.
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[edit] When Not to Decline a Gift
Never make a hasty decision to decline a gift. There are consequences in doing so that should be first considered. When a close friend, family member or loved one gives you a gift, there is usually love behind their gift. Refusing their gift can be perceived as refusing their love. How would you feel if the bracelet you so lovingly chose and saved for was rejected as being too extravagant? All of the anticipated pleasure derived from giving such a gift would be crushed.
Another instance when declining a gift would seem appropriate is when the recipient feels he/she can’t reciprocate. In this case, the obvious reaction is to politely decline the gift. Stop and think before declining! Rather than hurting feelings and crushing a relationship, it may be better to summon the courage to accept the love and generosity the giver intended.
Personal relationships can be complicated. Gifts given and received within these relationships can complicate matters even further. Therefore, it is important to receive respectfully and to know how and when to decline politely.
